Marriage article links

There’s really a lot of Shaadi stuff in this blog, at this point it isn’t even me putting up what’s happening in my personal life, I would like to say it's an issue that I have interest in , that is proving to be popular, that I’m looking at from the perspective of a neutral spectator ….(believe that if you will…). But yeah keep the comments coming and I will keep posting on the topic as and when ‘inspiration’ strikes……

This is a good essay on Marriage that Sharath gave me the link to, I’m sure it won’t be earth shattering for most people and I assume many people feel like the author , but nonetheless give it a read,I do have concerns with regards to “’keeping things as they are” and that ‘most age old traditions are there for a reason’ , but the comments section is insightful in this case

Jane Galt on Marriage


And t-towners… Tuscaloosa is mentioned ‘marginally’ …. some where in the beginning........
Also I can’t believe Rashmi Bansal is writing about marriage now, it's pretty much the same old argument , matrimonial ad’s , the question about whether girls were pressurized to get married etc etc ,(I admit I haven’t witnessed any terrible ,terrible marriages, only happy ones )….. some people think girls sound like people out to “lootofy” their husbands, you know I wish I could sympathize with the guys , I’m trying hard to , but when you have been conditioned pretty much your whole life to get married ,is it too much to ask for this person you get married to ,to solve all your problems??? I know it’s a lot of stress, but life’s stressful deal with it!!! Also , for all those guys who are scared of being duped; a person who looks after you, your children , your parents , your siblings , your extended family, ( believe me all women I know do this , its ingrained and its conditioned ) is worth her weight in gold!!!!
Guys, You’re lucky to get married!!!!

Read the post here :
The Marriage Market

Also does questioning the "Status Quo" equate to "Rabid Feminism"??? Ratsss!!!!